The Narcissist Mother had her youngest daughter run away for love in the year 2002 as she was against the person the daughter had chosen in love and wanted to marry although he been Indian was not of the same cast and therefore the second elder daughter who was still at home was controlled to such an extend not allowing her to pick up a career of her choice or to make any decisions for her life, kept locked up and controlled till I surfaced on the scene. This is bad parental behavior and against the law as the eldest daughter was well into her twenties, beyond the age of adult hood, This is abuse of Power and this devil mother has to be held accountable, furthermore in anger with the younger daughter she didn’t even speak to her for years and and only mended ties at our marriage in 2007.
I met the elder daughter in the August 2005 for the first time and we had a few casual meetings after which a period of conflicts, drama and anguish ensued till the day the second daughter had to elope to Malaysia in August 2006 where I made her meet my two children from my past marriage and this was the main reason why the mother didn’t want our marriage to occur since her means to control our destiny of others will be in jeopardy.
The elder daughter was in a relationship with someone else and her mother fixed a arranged marriage with one baby kid personality with no other siblings, this marriage fixed and ready to go and then the relationship she had, this personality surfaced where this arranged marriage broke and ended in shame. The Mother then moves her elder daughter to Pune in India and during this time undertakes a investment opportunity for income by placing money with a local developer.
In July 2007 right after our marriage, they requested I join them for a trip to pune as her mother had some unfinished business, so we went. On the way there they briefed me that there was a developer who had defrauded her mother as he had stop paying interest income promised as part of the deal. Once we got there I intervened and warned the developer he will face consequences if he didn;t perform and both the developer and mother got back into talking with each other for resolution.
Few months into the marriage and Janki the mother calls and tells my wife to go to Singapore for a Funeral and this relative who had passed away, lied dead in her house for three days and none of her relatives even knew about it. This was the first argument and disagreement inside of our house and this was indeed Jankis first interferences into our family and I disallowed such an action as this is responsibility of the mother and not of my wife whom the mother always has used as her worker and demanding priority while not taking consideration wishes of my wife or myself and our family, this is one of the key reasons Rosh has never been able to be consistent with any activity, be it in a career job, hobby or even the family affairs.
In any case, a few months later, the mother presents a “Power of Attorney” in the courts in India claiming ownership of this dead relatives house on the basis the house was left to her as she was the introducer to the developer whom she had recommended to invest with. Another Power of Attorney was presented by the dead relatives brother, one of them was fraudulent, the mother didn’t get the house in any case as there is no legal basis to go after a introducer for an investment which resulted into a loss and its even more fraudulent to claim so after benefiting from interest income once the investment has gone sour for whatever circumstances to claim losses from an Introducer.
Such behavior is criminal in nature and now the daughter is claiming a house as a matrimonial home in the courts when its not, further more it was purchased way before the marriage, it was leased out on multiple occasions and furthermore this evil mother in law is now using her daughter for money and income and when the daughter first came to Malaysia, she was specifically instructed to lay down the grounds for a divorce, right from the start of the marriage, she was told she is a privileged lady and should instead lay grounds into the local community, by joining kitty parties and or do bal-vihar classes for kids, I questioned all this and disallowed this as she was only 30 years of age and such activities are for people who are off old age, the narcissist doesn’t seem to understand where her position is with her kids, she thinks they are an extension of them and therefore are duty bound to be in servitude to them. I questioned Rosh on her own spirituality and whether she is in a position to teach children when herself is a compulsive liar and has issues to speak the truth, communicate properly or even be accountable to their responsibilities and the wows of marriage taken and I question the behavior of the mother as well on the basis of morality and the position of the law. This entire scandal is premediated from the start and the idea f someone getting married and you gain 50% of assets is a fraudulent and an abuse of the woman’s charter laws by deceitful woman.
More to come.
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